Following Edward
Carpenter's death in 1929, a memorial collection of twenty nine essays by
friends and colleagues, entitled ‘Edward Carpenter In Appreciation', was
published in 1931. To mark the 80th anniversary of Carpenter's death, selections
from some of these essays are reproduced here. These excerpts, chosen for their
diversity and for what they reveal of friendship and of Carpenter's concluding
years at Guildford, have been edited to
facilitate the flow of text.
Henry W. Nevinson (The
campaigning journalist and war correspondent, known as ‘the King of
Correspondence'):
'That humorous
belief in the inward and spiritual grace somewhere to be found in most people,
certainly in most working people, was to myself the most attractive evidence of
his rich and generous nature. With all natural things in their due order of
succession he was at peace-with sky, seas, with earth and hills, with worms and
butterflies, hares and dogs, savages and Hindu dreamers, with English workers
in country and town. It was only against the unnatural types of mankind-the
stuffy professors, the frequenters of drawing-rooms, the "public
benefactors", the acquisitive plunderers - that he declared what the old Greeks
called a war without herald. And yet when it came to their human personalities,
I think he would often have gone to them as herald himself.
I know there are
many other sides of the man upon which other friends may dwell. But this was
the side I chose as most attractive and comprehensible to myself. This was the side I loved to find in him
again whenever I visited him in the quiet home at Guildford, and, amid so many
memories and emotions, this was the side I had most in mind when I stood over
his grave.'
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Evelyn Sharp (Author
and contributor to the ‘Yellow Book', who became part of the militant suffrage
campaign. A pacifist during the First World War, she later wrote for the Daily
Herald. Sister of Cecil Sharp, the collector of folk song and traditions, she
married Henry Nevinson in 1933);
'I read Edward
Carpenter's books when I was young; I wore his sandals on my summer holidays,
waiting months for them as we all did while he made them with his own hands;
but I did not meet the man himself until he was seventy years of age. That was
in 1914, soon after the outbreak of war, and... it was a great experience to
enjoy his friendship for the last fifteen years of his life, and to learn how
fine and complete a thing old age can be when it is the fulfilment of a
vigorous and inspired life.
(What) struck me
particularly, then and always, about Edward Carpenter... was the quality of his
friendship. He seemed to have mastered the art of human fellowship... He
approached one as a human being, in fact, and this was especially noticeable
when the companion was a woman. In the common interchange of thought and communion
of spirit there was for him no difference between a man and a woman; he judged
them on an absolute equality. It is perhaps difficult for the present
generation to see anything remarkable in this, but to women, even of my
generation in which the Suffrage movement began to revolutionize the old
self-conscious relations between men and women, his matter-of-course assumption
that we met on the common ground of our humanity was at least noticeable.
Perhaps the fact
that, as he frankly admits more than once, women did not attract him physically
may have had something to do with what one might call his detachment of mind
where women were concerned. "The romance of my life went elsewhere",
he says once; and again: "Perhaps on the emotional side women did not
supply what I needed."... Whatever the reason, the way of his approach to women
made friendship with him both real and satisfying...'
Whether one found
him writing in his little wooden shelter turned towards the sun, in his Surrey
garden, or walked with him along the wide green road that topped the hills at
the back of his house, the impression remained of someone... who had in the
best sense "arrived"...'
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W.J. Godfrey A Worker's Friendship in the Last Years:
‘It was after he
arrived at Guildford, when he was living at
"Millthorpe", Mountside, that I met my late comrade and friend,
Edward Carpenter... It was in February 1924 that my first visit took place when
he sent for me to explain the railway strike then taking place. He seemed
pleased to hear of our activities and understood our difficulties at once... on
my part, if it was not a case of love at first sight, I soon grew to love this
young-old man, old in years, but still essentially young... I find it difficult
to describe my first impression of his character, but to put it briefly I would
say the outstanding impression was that of sympathetic understanding. This was
strengthened on each of the many visits I paid him from that day to the end. We
met, not as Edward Carpenter, philosopher and author, and Jim Godfrey, engine
driver, but as equals and comrades in a great movement that will eventually
mean the liberation of humanity.
On one of these
early visits he showed me the Manifesto he had just received from the Trade
Union Congress on the occasion of his eightieth birthday, and he who had never
shouldered his way into the limelight was honestly delighted that the workers'
movement recognized him and remembered his work.
Living as he did,
Carpenter had little contact with the outside world, yet his interest in the
progress of the Socialist movement remained unflagging, and in these last few
years he made me one of his sources of information. He was always immensely
satisfied to be able to do the least thing to help. In November 1925 I
contested as a Labour candidate the St. Nicolas Ward in which he then resided.
The local papers made a personal attack on me and labelled me a
"Communist". Carpenter read these papers, and when I called sought
anxiously to sign my nomination paper and gave me a special message for my
election address. Four times I fought this Ward, and the first three occasions
he nominated me and voted. He did not live to see the success on the fourth
attempt.
Discussing England, Arise!
one day Edward remarked: "They are a long time about it"! "It's
coming, for all that," I replied. Taking hold of my hand, he said:
"Thank you so much for that note of optimism." He looked with regret
upon the leaders of the Labour movement of to-day, who with its growth and
attainment of power had given up their earlier Socialist outlook and were
bowing and conforming to the old traditions, empty ceremonies, and smug
respectability of society that they formerly fought.
I remembered
clearly what must have been his last public appearance-at a Labour Rally in the
Borough Hall, Guildford... when he spoke
slowly and haltingly for few minutes to a working-class audience. Although
possibly few of them appreciated or knew of his works, it was clear they
realized that here was one who understood them, believed in them, and belonged
to them. They, too, suffered with him while he delivered, with obvious
difficulty, those few stumbling words, and they listened in a sympathetic
silence to the end.
Turning to all workers (in Towards Democracy), he says;
It is not a little
thing, you- wherever you are- following the plough, or clinging with your feet
to the wet rigging, or nursing your babe through the long day when your husband
is absent, or preparing supper for his return - or you on the footplate of your
engine-
* * * * *
It is not a little thing that by such a life your face should become as
a lantern of strength to men;
That
wherever you go they should rise up stronger to the battle, and go forth with
good courage.
Nay, it is very
great.
I do not forget.
Indeed, I worship none more than I worship you...
In between the bright intervals of the last few years he had
periods of great feebleness when, unable to express his thoughts, he would
simply take my hand, and we understood.'
C.T.Cramp(General Secretary of the National Union of Railwaymen) in ‘My Earliest Teacher':
‘The last time I saw him was at his new home near Guildford.
Already he had grown enfeebled and slightly deaf; yet his enthusiasm burned as
brightly as ever and his interest in current affairs was absolutely
undiminished... He was then engaged on what would be, he assured me, his last
book, a work upon Eastern religions... I took him out for a little ride through
the Surrey heather which was then in bloom and
the sight of which gave him great delight... In spite of the weight of his
years and the infirmity which I have mentioned, his intellect seemed as keen as
ever and his serenity was undisturbed...
To me and to all who knew him personally he will always remain as one of
the greatest and most clear-sighted teachers that society has ever known.'
Goldsworthy Lowes Dickinson(the Cambridge Don, who,
out of horror at the First World War, left his King's College seclusion to play
a key role in the formation of the League of Nations) in ‘Edward Carpenter as a
Friend';
‘It must have been,
I think, in 1885 that I first met Edward Carpenter and I believe it was at a
lecture he gave in the little hall attached to William Morris's house at
Hammersmith. I remember Carpenter on the platform, a tallish spare figure
bearded, with a sensitive and beautiful head, but I cannot remember in any
detail what he said. He must however have been preaching Socialism... The key to Carpenter's Socialism is to be
found in his personal affections. He wanted a society in which men and women
could be lovers and friends, and he found our society badly organized for that
purpose. To the economists and politicians of the movement this approach seemed
to be sentimental nonsense.
So far as I was
personally concerned, it was not in his character of Socialist worker that I
knew him. We were more concerned with music, literature, and mysticism. He had
a delightful touch on the piano and we used to play duets together. It was so
that I made my first acquaintance with the C minor Symphony of Beethoven. He
had also a little tune which he called the ‘old thing' which rings in my ears
at this moment.
My latest and most
beautiful memories of Carpenter date from the latter part of his life when he
was living at Guildford. His sweet and calm
wisdom, his humour and his affection shone more amply and tenderly when the
heat of the day was done...
Edward's grief (at
George Merrill's death) was overwhelming. I remember him walking on my arm to
the cemetery at Guildford where they had buried George a few days before, and
where he himself was to lie a year or so later. It was a day of pouring rain,
and we stood beside the grave, while Carpenter ejaculated again and again,
"They have put him away in the cold ground".
He endured,
indeed, in those years some of his saddest experiences, but they did not
shatter him. Even physical failure, which made him helpless in mind and body,
left him still the lover and the friend; and he was tended to the last with the
fidelity and patience that only love can give. What he may have found on the
other side we do not and shall not know. But we know the quest that inspired
him to the end.'
Harold Picton (a conscientious objector, and a member of
the British Society for the Study of Sex Psychology with a concern for
homosexual law reform [Edward Carpenter A Life of Liberty and Love, Sheila
Rowbotham, Verso, 2008: p382])
‘Another memory...
when Edward Carpenter, Magnus Hirschfeld (the German sexual theorist and
campaigner for homosexual rights), Norman Haire, a young Italian barrister, and
a young German architect forgathered on the little lawn of a cottage that my
comrade and I then had in Surrey-a cottage far away from everywhere, and, as
the village policeman said, with "no damned neighbours". Edward
always preferred to talk to one at a time, and, as his hearing became less
good, preferred it still more. So on this occasion (Edward was then eighty-two)
he said to one after another of the guests, "Come, I want to have a talk with
you," and took him off to wander round the garden. It was a somewhat
perplexing assembly, for the young German had the dark hair, skin, and eyes
that we should at once call "Italian", the Italian was a fair blond
of "Germanic" type, Norman Haire looked rather "Prussian",
Magnus Hirschfeld looked like a "Christian", and all the supposed
national characteristics were hopelessly
contradicted. Edward was the international element, and was able linguistically
to unite the different nationalities.
Of our last memory
of him I dare write little. After George's death there was only the end to be
desired. Both my friend and I were overwhelmed by the change in Edward. His
life had become a cry for his comrade; the real self was already elsewhere. It
was tragic, as all life must be tragic, but in no way hopeless. Something was
there-I cannot express what-that remained victor. In those Guildford
days, as the shadows gathered, there was one constant ray of light in the
self-forgetful and devoted help given by Ted Inigan. We all know that we owe
him a debt of thanks.'
‘I lived nearly seven years with Edward Carpenter in Guildford, which was the happiest time of my life, until
his death occurred on June 28,1929.
I felt the loss of him very much as we were nearly always
together; I used to take him out for walks which he enjoyed very much. Often he
used to say to me, "Come on, let's get out; I must have some air".
Many times, when I would be taking him up to bed at night, he would look out of
the window and say what a lovely night it was, and then he would change his
mind and we would go out for a walk, sometimes as late as 10.30 or 11 o'clock.
The Hog's Back was quite close to us and we often walked out on it in the
summer evenings to hear the nightingale, but I am sorry to say that I am afraid
he never heard it much. He was always very fond of birds and animals and used
to like to make friends with all the dogs. His one regret was that he could not
hear the birds sing. He liked to see people, too, very much, and was a great admirer
of the modern girl's dress and would often say how sensible it was. His house,
"Millthorpe", Mountside, Guildford,
was on the high side of the town and four of us-himself, George Merrill, his
Norwegian friend Grondahl, and I-lived a very happy and simple life there. He
was very devoted to George Merrill and felt the loss of him in January 1928
very much. They had lived together for nearly forty years, and I think that the
loss of George hastened on Mr. Carpenter's death. Things were not the same
afterwards. The neighbourhood was too hilly for him to get about with comfort,
so he sold the house and we lived in rooms for a time until we found a suitable
bungalow in the lower part of the town-"Inglenook", Joseph's Road. He
bought this bungalow on a Friday, and on the following Sunday he had a seizure
and he never regained his walking powers or his full mental powers. We had to
take him by ambulance to his new home and he lived quite happily there until
his death. He still loved to go out, and I used to wheel him out every day in
his chair when the weather was fit to do so. Sometimes I would take him into
the town with me when I went to do the shopping and he enjoyed this very much.
A lot of his friends came to see him, but he would soon tire of them if they talked
too much; sometimes he would not see people at all if he thought they would
talk too much. He liked to see two neighbouring friends, Miss Long and Miss
Hamblin, very much, and would see them any time. "The long and short of
it", he used to call them.
I am pleased to say he did not suffer very much during his
thirteen months' illness; he was always fairly cheerful and I was constantly
with him, day and night.
Sometimes he would say he was a great trouble to me, but he
was not, as it was only pleasure for me to do anything for him, and I would
have willingly kept on doing so if only he had lived. He was like a father to
me. God rest his soul.'
'...lovingly tended and nursed by his faithful attendant,
Edward Inigan, on whom he came to rely, like a child, for all his wants...
finally, after three days of semi-unconsciousness, he passed over on the
perfect summer afternoon of Friday, June 28, 1929-calmly and without distress.'
‘...it is a lovely day to-day, the kind he liked, wind as
well as sunlight; a chaffinch is still singing, a fly pretending to be a wasp
hovers over this piece of paper, and I must try to put down upon the paper why
our friend was not only charming and lovable, but great. His greatness scarcely
got into his books. They were famous in their day and did much good, but they
are unlikely to live many years now... The depths of his humanity! The words
are so oratorical and smug, but the best one can find. And it was a humanity
deeper than most of us can conceive. If I am as deep as a pond and you as a
lake, Edward Carpenter was the sea. He touched everyone everywhere. Even when
he wasn't intimate he was in direct contact, and as for intimacy, as for
personal relationships-they were to him the final reality; art, science, and
literature were trifles beside them, and religion only acceptable if it
promised personal immortality. To say that he made a cult of friendship is
again to become oratorical and smug. It was an impulse, not a cult. But it
reigned over every province of his life, and he expected it to be acknowledged
by others, and perhaps he never understood that for many people personal
relationships are unimportant for the reason that their hearts are small. His
own heart was great, and made him a great man. This is his secret so far as it
can be put into words; the greatness of his heart, the depth of his humanity,
the water that not only reflects the sky on its surface, but stretches down
towards the centre of the globe, where all lines meet, and the many become the
one.
I only knew Edward Carpenter during the last twenty years of
his life, when the saint was gaining on the prophet, and cannot say what he was
like in the fieriness of his prime. I knew him fairly well, not very well, and
I was perhaps too intellectualized and mentally fidgety quite to suit him...
Occasionally, for instance, when I was in the middle of some intelligent if
useless remark, he would say very gently, "Oh, do sit quiet". How he
hated restlessness! It was to him the antithesis both of calm and of passion,
it was a disease of civilization, it troubled the lake and clouded the sun, and
I am afraid that he would find this very book restless, and would say to its
worthy contributors, "Oh, do sit quiet". Or perhaps he would say,
"Why don't you all go out for a walk instead?" He was always going
for a walk himself... escaping from the words of men into the sunshine, and it
is out of doors, rather than in a memorial volume, that he will expect to be
remembered by his friends.'
The above quotations are taken from Edward Carpenter In
Appreciation, edited by Gilbert Beith, published by George Allen & Unwin
Ltd, London,
1931.The Edward Carpenter Forum has made every effort to obtain permission from
literary executors and copyright holders to reproduce these excerpts. We would
be grateful to hear from anyone else with an interest in this regard, or who
can give us further information. Our thanks go to the following for their kind
permissions; Reading City Library in regard to Gilbert Beith, the Trustees of
the Michael Ayrton Estate in regard to Henry Nevinson and Evelyn Sharp, and
King's College Cambridge in regard to Goldsworthy Lowes Dickinson and E.M.
Forster.